《铁哥们 李景韩》


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与李景韩是铁哥们,是身边的人都知道的事。

Li Jinghan and I are friends. Everyone around us knows that.


我们的铁是孔子说的“君子周而不比”的铁。

Our iron is the iron that Confucius said "a gentleman is not equal in every way".


第一次与景韩兄相识就曾问过他名字的含义,他告诉我:当年他父亲是个医生,后来做了国民党长春军法处法官。因为这段历史问题才来到了黑龙江省笔架山劳改农场进行劳动改造的,是个有学识和正义感的国民党官员。喜欢历史上的本家李姓大诗人李白的才华与豪放性格。1945年看到刚降生的儿子天庭宝满,地阁方圆,杏眼黑亮,鼻挺口方,很是喜欢。因生在解放前东北正是国共争夺天下的时代,不想让儿子卷入政治漩涡,就借用李白的“生不用封万户侯,但愿一识韩荆州”诗句中的荆韩做名,想让儿子也能像李白-样,满身才华,傲视权贵,后来上小学时报名老师给写成了李景韩,也就沿用了-生。可能是李姓的血脉基因,也或许是父亲的有意培养,景韩兄天生聪慧,记忆力超强,十几岁就可把唐诗宋词名篇背得滚瓜烂熟。特别是李白的《与韩荆州书》,中年以后还能张口即来:白闻天下谈士相聚而言日:“生不用封万户侯,但愿一-识韩荆州。”何令人之景慕,-至于此耶!岂不以有周公之风,躬吐握之事,使海内豪俊,奔走而归之,一登龙门, 则声价十倍!所以龙蟠凤逸之士,皆欲收名定价于君侯。愿君侯不以富贵而骄之、寒贱而忽之---- -洋洋洒洒五百九十多言,一气背出。

When I met brother Jinghan for the first time, I asked him the meaning of his name. He told me that his father was a doctor at that time, and later he became a judge of Changchun Military Justice Department of the Kuomintang. Because of this historical problem, he came to Bijiashan reform through labor farm in Heilongjiang Province. He was a KMT official with knowledge and sense of justice. I like the great poet Li Bai's talent and bold and unconstrained character. 1945

See just born son Tianting Baoman, DIGE square, apricot eyes black, nose quite mouth square, very like. Born in the Northeast before liberation, it was the time when the KMT and the Communist Party fought for the world. I didn't want to involve my son in the political whirlpool. I borrowed Jing Han from Li Bai's poem "I don't need to be a marquis when I was born, I hope I know Han Jingzhou". I wanted my son to be like Li Bai, full of talent and proud of power. Later, when I was in primary school, I signed up Shigei wrote Li Jinghan, and he also used Yisheng. Maybe it's the blood gene of the surname Li, or maybe it's the father's intentional cultivation. Brother Jinghan is born intelligent and has a strong memory. As a teenager, he can recite Tang poetry and Song Ci well. Especially in Li Bai's book with Han Jingzhou, after middle age, he can open his mouth to come: Bai Wen, the world's scholars, get together to talk about Japan: "you don't need to be a marquis, I hope to know Han Jingzhou." What a admiration! As for this, it's not because of the Duke of Zhou's style and his bowing and holding, that the heroes in the sea will come back. Once they reach the dragon's gate, the price will be ten times as high as the price. Therefore, all the people who are long pan and Feng Yi want to be named and valued by the emperor. When you are rich, you will not be proud.


这是我们一起喝酒时谈到他名字时的一个场景,那时我们因都在农场做统计工作而相识。又因都对中国的国学文化感兴趣而惺惺相惜,那时是八十年代初,中国正拨乱反正,还在讨论《实践是检验真理的唯一标准》的年代。可能是都属鸡的星座相同,景韩比我大一旬,我们的性格爱好有许多相象之处。

This is a scene when we talked about his name when we were drinking together. At that time, we met because we were doing statistical work on the farm. At that time, it was the early 1980s when China was putting things right and was still discussing "practice is the only criterion for testing truth". Maybe the constellations of all chickens are the same. Jinghan is ten years older than me. Our personalities and hobbies have many similarities.


记得我们一起常聊的就是中国历史上的豪杰之士,我喜欢宋时的陆游,特别喜欢他的红酥手,黄滕酒,满城春色宫墙柳。东风恶,欢情薄。一怀愁绪,几年离索。错、错、错。春如旧,人空瘦,泪痕红渴鲛绡透。桃花落,闲池阁。山盟虽在,锦书难托。莫、莫、莫!

I remember we often talked about heroes in Chinese history. I like Lu You in Song Dynasty, especially his red crisp hands, huangteng wine, and willows on palace walls in spring. The east wind is evil, but the joy is weak. -Sad mood, a few years away. Wrong, wrong, wrong. Spring as old, empty and thin, tears red and thirsty, shark silk through. Peach blossom falls, idle pool Pavilion. Although the mountain alliance is there, the brocade book is hard to trust. Mo, Mo, Mo!


景韩兄马上接道:陆放翁的《钗头凤》是他晚年追悔错失与唐氏的爱情之作,委婉了些,要看陆游的胸怀还得是:当年万里觅封候, 匹马戍梁州。关河梦断何处, 尘暗旧貂裘。胡未灭 ,鬓先秋,泪空流。此身谁料, 心在天山,身老沧洲!

Brother Jinghan immediately said, "Chai tou Feng" by Lu fangweng is a work that he regretted missing his love with the Tang family in his later years. To be more euphemistic, it depends on Lu You's mind: when he was looking for a marquis, he was stationed in Liangzhou. Where is the dream of Guanhe River. Hu not out, temples first autumn, tears empty flow. This body who expect, heart in Tianshan, body old Cangzhou!


我又背出辛弃疾的“斜阳草树,寻常巷陌,人道寄奴曾住,想当年,金戈铁马,气吞万里如虎。"以示我也喜欢英雄豪气。

I recited Xin Qiji's "setting sun, grass and trees, ordinary alleys and alleys, where the human slaves once lived. I thought that in those days, the golden age, the iron horse, the gas swallow thousands of miles like a tiger.". "To show that I also like heroism.


景韩兄又来:大江东去,浪淘尽,千古风流人物。故垒西边,人道 是三国周郎赤壁。乱石穿空,惊涛拍岸,卷起千堆雪。江山如画, 一时多少豪杰。-- -- - -是苏东坡的《念奴娇●赤壁怀古》那天我们是酒助雄心,诗添豪情,纷纷亮出家底,抖出存货。把个肚里的唐诗宋词左传春秋诸子百家知道的凤毛麟角的都折腾了一遍。

Brother Jinghan comes again: the river goes to the East, the waves are washed out, and it's a man of the past. To the west of the old base is Chibi, zhoulang of the Three Kingdoms. The rocks pierce the air, the waves break on the shore, and thousands of piles of snow are rolled up. Picturesque landscape, how many heroes. ----- it's Su Dongpo's "niannujiao: reminiscence of the past in Chibi". On that day, we helped our ambition with wine and filled our pride with poetry. We all came out of our families and got out of stock. He tossed over all the rare Tang poetry and Song Ci that all the scholars in the spring and Autumn Period knew.


记得景韩在举最后- -杯时是背诵着李白的诗干下去的:人生得意须尽欢,莫使金樽空对月。

I remember when Jing Han held the last cup, he recited Li Bai's poem: when you are satisfied with your life, you must be happy. Don't let the golden cup empty to the moon.


天生我材必有用,千金散尽还复来。五花马, 千金裘,呼儿将出换美酒,与尔同销万古愁。那天我们都醉了,最后醉倒诗酒之中。

I'm born to be useful. When all the gold is gone, I'll come back. --__ -Wuhuama, qianjinqiu, hu'er will exchange wine with you to sell your worries. We were all drunk that day, and finally we got drunk.


从此景韩认我为兄弟,虽然后来我二弟与他的儿子有了平辈的姻亲关系,但景韩在多次场合都公开声明,我和连成不论什么时候,永远是哥们,不受传统礼教约束,告诉他儿子:你们可各论各叫。我们的哥们关系永远不变。

From this point, Jing Han recognized me as a brother. Although later my second brother and his son had the same marriage relationship, Jing Han publicly declared on many occasions that no matter when Lian Cheng and I were brothers, we would never be bound by traditional ethics. He told his son: you can call each other. Our friendship will never change.


景韩为人处事,低调平稳,从不张杨,帮人总在最需要的关健之时,事情办完了也不张杨炫耀。

Jinghan's behavior is low-key and steady. He never shows off Zhang Yang. He always helps people when they need it most.


景韩当时在农场的六连做统计工作,我在计财科搞统计综合。六连距场部有80多里路,当年是农场38个连队中最远的一个单位。1982年初冬的一 天下午快下班时,天外已是暮色,景韩穿件当年机耕队员都发的灰色棉布大衣,背着农场服务连自己加工的黄帆布挎包,急匆匆地进来,告诉我:连成,我给你送来一车苞米瓤子, 你给我带车回家卸下来,车等着回去呢。

At that time, Jinghan was doing statistical work in the sixth company of the farm, and I was doing statistical synthesis in the Department of planning and finance. Liulian is more than 80 miles away from the farm Department. It was the farthest unit in the 38 companies of the farm at that time. One afternoon in the early winter of 1982, when he was about to leave work, it was already dusk outside. Jinghan, wearing a gray cotton overcoat issued by all the mechanical tillers of that year, and carrying a yellow canvas satchel made by the farm service company himself, came in in a hurry and told him Tell me: Liancheng, I'll send you a truck of rice pulp. You can take the truck home to unload it. The truck is waiting to go back.


当年我们住农场的平房,都是烧煤取暖做饭,引火柴就成了问题,那时我刚结婚,生活用品一点没有,也不知啥时聊天说出了过冬为没有引火柴发愁和话来。景韩就记在了心里,一入冬,连队收完苞米各家分的苞米瓤子,他就求连队的大55马力的拖拉机给我送来了一车。最让人难忘的是车上跟来的装卸工竟是景韩的儿子叫铁子。那时铁子刚满15岁,还在上学。这一车苞米瓤子让我家引了四年炉火还没用完。至今想到当年那个初冬黄昏,想到景韩穿着灰布棉大衣斜挎着黄布兜的样子,想到15岁铁子在车上冻得红彤彤的小脸。就直后悔那天没能留住他们爷俩在家吃顿饭再走。那天也确实是事情来得突然,来不及准备,当年也没有饭店可去。他们还要赶在天黑前早点回去,怕连队有事用车。我也只能用君子之交淡如水来宽慰自己。

When we lived in bungalows on the farm, we used to burn coal for heating and cooking, and lighting matches became a problem. At that time, I just got married, and I didn't have any daily necessities. I didn't know when I chatted and said that I was worried about not lighting matches in winter. Jinghan kept it in mind. As soon as winter came, the company finished collecting the rice pulp from each family, so he asked the company's 55 horsepower tractor to send me a truck. The most unforgettable What I saw was that the loader on the car was Jinghan's son, tiezi. Tie Zi had just turned 15 and was still in school. It's been four years since my family started the fire. Up to now, I think of that early winter dusk that year, I think of Jinghan wearing a grey cotton coat with a yellow cloth bag, and I think of tiezi's red face in the car when he was 15 years old. I regret that I couldn't keep them for dinner that day. On that day, it was really a sudden event. There was no time to prepare, and there was no hotel to go. They have to go back early before dark for fear that the company will have to use the car. I can only comfort myself with the friendship of a gentleman.


后来,景韩由统计转会计,由连队调计财科,从主管财务成本到当计财科长主管全场经济,再到在公安部都留名挂号的造纸厂当厂长,真的应了李白“天生我才必有用"那句诗。而我与景韩兄四十多年的友谊也就是从知道了“生不用封万户候,但愿一识韩荆州"开始。

Later, Jing Han transferred from statistics to accounting, transferred from the company to the accounting department, from being in charge of financial costs, to being the head of the accounting department, to being in charge of the whole field economy, and then to being the director of a paper mill that has been registered by the Ministry of public security. He really answered Li Bai's poem that "I am born to be useful.". And my 40 years of friendship with brother Jinghan started with knowing that "I don't need to wait for thousands of families to live, I hope I can get to know Han Jingzhou.".


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国平
2021-03-29 19:06:31
景韩为兄是我的好大哥。除了为人是东北的爷们。就是怀有情怀!
匿名
2021-03-29 18:58:44
是否可以将所有的作品装订成册,让那个年代的孩童回味年少之童趣咦u。