Wang Xiaofei and big s' marriage is in a hot water.
A quarrel, let big s blurt out to divorce, like the normal husband and wife quarrel, but did not expect to ferment into a public event.
In this divorce storm, Wang Xiaofei obviously miscalculated.
Emotional excitement said some inappropriate words, let the couple quarrel, make a quarrel, make a lot of.
After the incident, Wang Xiaofei also clarified for the first time, then called to apologize to the big s for the first time. Now he posted a microblog to express his wife: "love all family members, my wife is the first."
From clarification to apology to confession, in front of big s, Wang Xiaofei is not humble, but shows a man's responsibility and responsibility.
After the divorce, Mrs. s told an interview that the daughter was not allowed to advise her, the more she was, the more she was angry, the more I was wordy, the more upset she felt, so she would be quiet and think for a few days, and she would have figured out.
In fact, for Wang Xiaofei and DAS, the character is stubborn and straightforward.
Mother revealed: big s personality stubborn, family are afraid of her.
Such a woman even family is afraid of her, and besides her husband, but Wang Xiaofei is also a person with a straight character, and he is not shy of it. Therefore, the two people often have disputes. But as a man, Wang Xiaofei knows how to do it in the life of husband and wife.
Wang Xiaofei also realized his problems before apologizing.
"Xiao Fei will write some angry articles as soon as she drinks. In fact, he is just worried that his wife and children don't get vaccine," said Mrs. S. S. she hopes everyone is safe and healthy and get vaccinated quickly.
Wang Xiaofei's initial heart is good, but often because of drinking misdeeds, resulting in a lot of sexual, writing hard, and even quarreling with his wife.
Drinking mistakes are obviously not twice for Wang Xiaofei. So this time, Wang Xiaofei obviously made mistakes. Even though the big S is stubborn, Wang Xiaofei should not let go of his own way.
In marriage life, the female side is often in a weak position. Men should have more understanding and tolerance, and should shoulder their due responsibilities and responsibilities. When there is a dispute, the male side should learn to show their own weakness and show good, which is not a humble and weak performance. On the contrary, it proves the responsibility and responsibility of a man.
Quarrel is an inevitable thing in the life of husband and wife. No matter for any reason, sometimes the step back is to be broad and wide, think more about each other's good, and stand in the other side's perspective to consider the problem, rather than impose their own ideas on each other.
Wang Xiaofei and big s first have regional cultural differences, so it is the most basic to ask for common ground while reserving differences, understanding and respecting each other. Even if they have been together for ten years, they obviously understand each other's cultural differences, so they will not make any big mistakes. Of course, it is not incongruous to see their regional cultural differences. After all, the biggest problem is the choice of which side to live.
In the present convenient transportation, this may not be difficult. Although the focus of their career is different, for them who have been married for ten years, they may have already found a solution. However, due to the impact of the big environment, the contradiction will be aggravated. However, it is still necessary to understand respect, tolerance and overcome difficulties.
In addition, the problem of character is another reason. The two people are similar in character, which requires more understanding and tolerance. Because of the similar character, once there is a dispute, they will fight for each other, but not compromise. Therefore, one party is required to be able to tolerate the withdrawal, otherwise it will inevitably be an irreparable and endless quarrel.
In this incident, Wang Xiaofei undoubtedly gave way, which is correct.
After all, as a man, we should learn to bow down, and such a bow is not to show weakness and humble, but to be a man.
In fact, from the editing record of Wang Xiaofei Weibo, Wang Xiaofei has begun to pay more and more attention to his speech. Because he is too straight and upright, once he speaks, he will be reckless and will bring unnecessary troubles. Once he talks, he has suffered a lot of losses, so he becomes more and more cautious.
This marriage change has taught Wang Xiaofei a lesson. It is to learn to control emotions and mouth, to drink less, and not to express a bad speech or temper. It is not only bad for himself, but also bad for the family. After all, no one wants to be disturbed by outsiders and live in public opinion.
For family, for children and for himself, Wang Xiaofei should remember and teach.
Don't make excuses for your indulgence. If you can't help it, it's a lifetime of happiness. If you can't help it, it's a beautiful story, and then there will be a lifetime of pain.