谢杏芳首谈林丹出轨:是种成长 给他打99分

       Xie Xingfang first talked about Lin Dan's derailment: it was a growth that gave him 99 points

南方都市报1月7日报道  6日下午，羽毛球前世界冠军谢杏芳作为特邀嘉宾出席了由广州文艺市民空间联合黄埔书院共同打造全新文艺惠民品牌“以书会友，亲爱精诚”首期活动。在活动现场，谢杏芳讲述了自己从羽毛球运动员转型为创业者的理由和期望，并与现场观众进行了亲密的互动。

创业为自己也是为儿子

退役之后，谢杏芳在公共场合露面的次数不多，且多次是以陪伴丈夫林丹参加比赛的形式出现。

最近，谢杏芳决定投身商海，此次受邀出席访谈也是为了推广自己的母婴品牌创业项目。

“其实以前做运动员的时候，对如何做一个妻子、如何做一个母亲并没有考虑太多，对于如何育儿也没有多少了解。在小羽（谢杏芳之子）出生之后，我开始关心一些以前从未关心过的领域，比如母婴产品、育儿常识这些。我做了很多功课，才慢慢适应了角色转换。”谢杏芳表示。

在了解了相关的市场行情后，谢杏芳做出了一个大胆的决定，她开始在母婴产品行业自主创业。“我希望能够开发出健康、环保的产品，为所有妈妈‘保驾护航’，让所有的孩子都能够健康成长。”谢杏芳表示。

对于自己的创业前景，谢杏芳也是信心满满，她说：“我记得我怀孕的时候，由于担心化学物质对胎儿的伤害，停用了很多化妆品和洗护用品，这导致我怀孕期间都不敢出门。因此，我觉得有一款安全可靠的适合孕妇使用的洗护用品实在是太重要了。”

谢杏芳坦言，创业是为了自己，也为了儿子，她希望能够在儿子成年之前尽可能地给儿子一个健康成长的环境，让儿子小羽在成长过程中感受到更多的快乐。

鼓励儿子多与外界接触

谈到儿子的培养方式，谢杏芳有自己的一套理论。

“我8岁就进了运动队，在运动队里一步步成长。对于儿子，我会让他多参加体育锻炼、参加比赛，让他懂得竞争的道理。毕竟这个社会还是一个优胜劣汰、适者生存的模式，如果我们做父母的不让他懂得如何在竞争中胜出，那么我们就是对他的未来不负责任。”

此外，谢杏芳表示，会在小羽再长大一些后，多带他参加社会活动，并鼓励他与同龄的孩子交流。

“我要鼓励儿子多与外界接触，让他懂得交流与沟通的重要性。在家里面，父母和爷爷奶奶也许都围绕着他转，但社会上的其他人不会这样。让他多和外界接触，就是希望他能学会与人相处，懂得做人的道理。”

在活动现场，谢杏芳透露：“如果有机会，自己会考虑再要一个小孩。”

“其实我很佩服一些外国母亲，她们往往是左手牵着一个，右手抱着一个，背后还背着一个，我总觉得她们非常厉害。”

谢杏芳的爱子降生，但林丹却被曝出在妻子孕期出轨。

给做爸爸的林丹打99分

目前，谢杏芳和林丹的儿子小羽已经满一周岁。据谢杏芳介绍，林丹在训练和比赛之余，也非常关心小羽。

去年2月，正在紧张备战苏迪曼杯的林丹特意回到北京的住所，庆祝儿子小羽的百日。作为爸爸的林丹，在妻子谢杏芳看来同样有很高的分数。

谢杏芳表示：“如果满分100分的话，可以给‘爸爸’林丹打99分。孩子出生之后，我看得出林丹对这个家更加用心，更加细致。”

2016年，沸沸扬扬的出轨事件让林丹一度处于舆论的风口浪尖。此事最后以林丹道歉、谢杏芳原谅而告终。

时隔一年多之后，谢杏芳再度回忆起这事时，只是平静地说了一句：“这是一种成长。”

从去年一年林丹在场内外的表现可以看出，他正在努力摆脱“渣男”的恶名，在儿子成长的过程中扮演一个好父亲的角色。

林丹表示，退役前的一个愿望便是有一天谢杏芳带着小羽到赛场看他打球。

来源：网易

Xie Xingfang first talked about Lin Dan's derailment: it was a growth that gave him 99 points

The Southern Metropolis Daily reported on January 7th, 6 afternoon. Xie Xingfang, the world champion before badminton, was invited to attend the first activity of the new literary and Huimin brand, which is composed by Guangzhou art and civic space and Whampoa　 Academy of classical learning. At the scene, Xie Xingfang told the reasons and expectations that he had transformed from a badminton player to an entrepreneur, and had a close interaction with the audience.

To start a business for himself is to be a son

After retiring, Xie Xingfang appeared in a few public occasions, and many times were in the form of accompanying her husband Lin Dan in the competition.

Recently, Xie Xingfang decided to join the sea, this is also invited to attend the interview in order to promote their mother brand business projects.

Actually, when I was an athlete, I didn't think much about how to be a wife and how to be a mother. I didn't know much about how to raise children. In Xiaoyu (son of Xie Xingfang) was born, I began to care about some never cared about the field, such as maternal and child products, parenting knowledge of these. I did a lot of homework before I slowly adapted to the role transformation. " Xie Xingfang said.

After getting to know the market, Xie Xingfang made a bold decision, and she began to start her own business in the mother and baby industry. "I want to be able to develop healthy, environmentally friendly products for all mothers' Escort ', so that all children can grow healthily." Xie Xingfang said.

For their own business prospects, Xie Xingfang is full of confidence, she said: "I remember when I was pregnant, because of concerns about the chemical material harm to the fetus, stop a lot of cosmetics and toiletries, which I do not dare to go out during pregnancy. Therefore, I think it is a safe and reliable for use by pregnant women care products is very important."

Xie Xingfang admitted that a business is to oneself, to his son, she hopes to son before adulthood as much as possible to the son of a healthy environment, let Kohane son feel more happy in the growth process.

Encourage more contact with the outside world

Xie Xingfang has a set of theories about his son's cultivation.

"I got into the sports team at 8, and I grew up in the team. For his son, I will let him take part in physical exercise and participate in the competition so that he can understand the truth of competition. After all, this society is still a survival mode of survival of the fittest and survival of the fittest. If we do not let him know how to win in competition, we are irresponsible for his future.

In addition, Xie Xingfang said, will grow again after Kohane, take him to take part in social activities, and to encourage him and the children of the same age of communication.

"I want to encourage my son to be in contact with the outside world so that he knows the importance of communication and communication. At home, parents and grandparents may have revolved around him, but the rest of the world won't do that. Let him contact with the outside world, that is to hope that he can learn to get along with people and understand the truth of being a man. "

At the scene, Xie Xingfang revealed: "if you have a chance, you will consider a child."

"Actually, I admire some foreign mothers. They are always holding one on the left hand, with one on the right hand, and one on the back. I always think they are very fierce.

Xie Xingfang's son was born, but Lin Dan was exposed in her wife's pregnancy.

99 points for Lin Dan, a father

At present, Xie Xingfang and Lin Dan's son was a year old spuria. According to Xie Xingfang, Lin Dan in training and competition, but also very concerned about the spuria.

In February last year, are busy preparing for the Sudirman Cup Lin Dan went back to the residence in Beijing, to celebrate the 100th day Kohane son. As a father's Lin Dan, his wife, Xie Xingfang, seems to have a very high score.

Xie Xingfang said, "if the full score is 100 points, you can score 99 points for 'dad' Lin Dan. After the baby was born, I could see that Lin Dan was more careful and more careful about the family.

In 2016, Lin Dan was at the forefront of public opinion. The matter finally ended with Lin Dan's apology and Xie Xingfang's forgiveness.

After more than a year, Xie Xingfang recalls it again, just quietly saying, "this is a kind of growth."

From last year's performance inside and outside of Lin Dan, he can see that he is trying to get rid of the notorious name of "slag man" and play a good father role in his son's growth.

Lin Dan said, a wish before retirement is one day Xie Xingfang took to the stadium to watch him play spuria.

Source: NetEase