歌曲赏析：

Song appreciation:

在古老中国关于两性的传统观念里：男大当婚、女大当嫁这个原则，天经地义，哪儿是为了什么“爱情”？生理的、伦理的、社会结构秩序的、生活分工互助的、氏族传宗接代的······多种多层的需要，才是古老中国的真正“男女关系”的基石。

In the ancient Chinese traditional concept of the sexes, it is natural that the principle that a man should be married and a woman should be married is a matter of course? Physiological, ethical, social structure and order, division of labor and mutual assistance in life, various and multi-level needs of clans are the cornerstone of the real "relationship between men and women" in ancient China.

抛开传统男女伦理关系不谈，年轻人心中理想的爱情该是什么样子呢？出自金、元之际著名文学家元好问的《摸鱼儿·雁丘词》一词中有名句“问世间，情为何物？直教生死相许。”告诉世人，真爱是一份义无反顾，以命相托的赤诚。

Leaving aside the traditional ethical relationship between men and women, what is the ideal love in young people's hearts? From Yuan Haowen, a famous writer at the turn of Jin and Yuan Dynasties, there is a famous sentence in his poem "fishing for fish. Yanqiu Ci". There is a famous sentence: "what is love in the world? Zhijiao agrees with life and death. " It tells the world that true love is a kind of sincere love with life.

元朝王实甫《西厢记》第五本第四折：“永老无别离，万古常完聚，愿天下有情的都成了眷属。”告诉世人，真爱是两情相悦后成为亲人，朝朝暮暮的陪伴，永不分离的守护。

The fourth fold of the fifth book of the romance of the Western chamber by Wang Shifu of the Yuan Dynasty: "there is no separation between the old and the old, and always get together forever. May those who have feelings in the world become family members." Tell the world that true love is to become relatives after two lovers, accompany each other day and night, and guard never separated.

“红学 ”大家周汝昌先生将爱情定义为：爱情应当是对那人的真实的、深切的全面了解、理解而对之发生的倾慕(鲁迅语)与倾倒——全心全身地服了其人，贡献给其人，为之服务解忧是自己最大的幸福。爱其人，惜其人，为了其人的利益幸福，一切不计。所谓“求仁而得仁，又何怨?!”不仅如此，他还说：“真爱情往往带着悲剧性因素，而世俗的‘爱情’，核实了却不过满足己欲，自我享受，自我‘占有’……”

Mr. Zhou Ruchang, a great master of "Redology", defined love as: love should be a real, deep and comprehensive understanding of that person, and admiration (in Lu Xun's language) and fall in love with that person. It is his greatest happiness to serve and relieve his worries by serving him wholeheartedly and wholeheartedly. Love them, cherish them, and be happy for their own interests. What's more, he also said: "true love often has tragic factors, but secular" love "has verified that it can only satisfy one's own desires, enjoy oneself, and" possess "

人世间最神圣的字眼，就是真爱。让天地相连，让岁月不老，让牵挂无限。

The most sacred word in the world is true love. Let the heaven and earth connect, let the years not old, let the concern infinite.

随着社会经济不断发展，东西方文化不断碰撞，为物欲所累而沉沦在“世俗爱情”漩涡中的男女们又何尝不在追问“真爱”是什么呢？世间真爱又能有多少？

With the continuous development of social economy and the collision of eastern and Western cultures, men and women who are tired of material desires and sink into the whirlpool of "secular love" ask what "true love" is? How much love can there be in the world?

爱上了，动真情了，最后伤心了。人世间最痛苦的事莫过于此！

Fell in love, moved the true feelings, finally sad. This is the most painful thing in the world!

请听作曲家徐嘉清原创伤情网红通俗歌曲《错爱》，或许能让您从中得到一些领悟；比如歌中有一句：“既然爱被痛苦掩埋，不如放手再也不爱”，何尝不是受伤人的理想选择。”

Please listen to the composer Xu Jiaqing's original popular song "wrong love", which may help you get some understanding. For example, there is a sentence in the song: "since love is buried in pain, it's better to let go and never love again". It's not an ideal choice for injured people

▲曲作家徐嘉清

Qu writer Xu Jiaqing

歌词欣赏：

Lyrics appreciation:

学识渊博的王春花老师采用了中国传说中的最早的只有四个字的歌词创作形式，对仗工整的排比句朗朗上口，用词简洁明了，意象清新质朴，直抒胸臆，深得《涂山氏歌》艺术精髓：候人兮猗。

Wang Chunhua, a knowledgeable teacher, adopted the earliest four word lyrics creation form in Chinese legend. He was eloquent with neat parallelism sentences, concise and clear words, fresh and simple images, and direct expression of his feelings. He won the artistic essence of Tushan's song: waiting for people.

《错爱》

《Wrong love》

作词:（王春美）

Lyrics: (Wang Chunmei)

作曲:徐嘉清

Composer: Xu Jiaqing

编曲:孙渔

Composer: Sun Yu

演唱:流苏

Singing: tassel

伴唱：水影

Accompaniment: water shadow

后期制作:五毒天書

Post production: Wu Du Tian Shu

以为你是 心中的海

Think you are the sea in your heart

就能让我 心潮澎湃

Can make my heart surge

为你舞动 心灵节拍

Dance the heart beat for you

却没演绎 人生精彩

But it didn't show the wonderful life

错爱错爱 错了的爱

Wrong love wrong love wrong love

真心换来 深深伤害

Deep hurt in exchange for sincerity

曾经许诺 风中摇摆

Once promised to swing in the wind

片片化作 相思的债

Piece by piece into Acacia debt

错爱错爱 错了的爱

Wrong love wrong love wrong love

来如梦幻 去如烟散

Come like a dream, go like smoke

既然爱被 泪水浇灌

Since love is watered with tears

不如放手 再已不爱

It's better to let go and no longer love

以为你是 心中的爱

Think you are the love in your heart

可以释放 久违情怀

Can release the feelings of long lost

为了圆梦 憧憬未来

In order to realize the dream and look forward to the future

谁知道你 那么无奈

Who knows you are so helpless

错爱错爱 错了的爱

Wrong love wrong love wrong love

真心换来 深深伤害

Deep hurt in exchange for sincerity

曾经许诺 风中摇摆

Once promised to swing in the wind

片片化作 相思的债

Piece by piece into Acacia debt

错爱错爱 错了的爱

Wrong love wrong love wrong love

来如梦幻 去如烟散

Come like a dream, go like smoke

既然爱被 泪水浇灌

Since love is watered with tears

不如放手 再已不爱

It's better to let go and no longer love

错爱错爱 错了的爱

Wrong love wrong love wrong love

真心换来 深深伤害

Deep hurt in exchange for sincerity

曾经许诺 风中摇摆

Once promised to swing in the wind

片片化作 相思的债

Piece by piece into Acacia debt

错爱错爱 错了的爱

Wrong love wrong love wrong love

来如梦幻 去如烟散

Come like a dream, go like smoke

既然爱被 泪水浇灌

Since love is watered with tears

不如放手 再已不爱

It's better to let go and no longer love

既然爱被 泪水浇灌

Since love is watered with tears

不如放手 再已不爱

It's better to let go and no longer love

一曲唱罢，感慨良多。纵使真爱难得，但人们还是应该心存希望，毕竟人间值得去等待！

After a song is sung, there are many feelings. Even though true love is rare, people should still have hope. After all, the world is worth waiting for!