《良训传家》

　　《孟子·离娄上》云“天下之本在国，国之本在家，家之本在身”，治国平天下起始于修身齐家，可见家庭教育至为重要。中国古代，上至帝王将相下至平民百姓，无不重视家教传承。家训典籍，可谓浩如烟海，从帝王李世民的《帝范》到名相诸葛亮的《诫子书》，从欧阳修的《示子》到司马光的《训子孙文》，可谓浩如烟海。韩昇的《良训传家——中国文化的根基与传承》一书，从丰厚的家训典籍中擢取对于当代仍有启示、值得发扬的部分，结合真实历史，联系现代社会现实，提炼出家训智慧中的精华并传递给读者。全书语言凝练却毫不晦涩，读之如醍醐灌顶；内容丰富又饱含深情，品来甘之如饴。

　　《良训传家》所选资料中既有颜之推、朱熹、曾国藩等人的家训名篇，又有《论语》《孟子》《菜根谭》等传世经典。作者从中梳理出大量经典内容并加以解说，融汇进自己的心得感悟。书中既为读者揭示了古代家族的传承之本，又提炼出“君子”的培养基础：由德入手、开拓胸怀、提高才能、增长见识，并认为这四个方面环环相扣，需要不断加以提升。作者还从古代家训的解读中，总结出“待人以宽、临事以敬、处世以诚”的优良品质，揭示“读书可以改变气质”，结交正派和博学多闻的朋友是提升人生境界的重要方式等诸多珍贵启示。

　　此书梳理家训内容，系统分类，为读者解读了传家之本、引导之本、教育之本、君子务本、立足之本、修身之本，将中华文明传承赖以凭借之根本娓娓道来，层层深入，契合了良训传家的主题，这也是本书结构的精妙之处。书中每一章都有具体的家训内容作为指引，再以历史人物例之，加深读者的理解，令家训读起来不再艰深难懂，让鲜活的历史人物跃然纸上，栩栩如生。如：作者结合汉高祖刘邦的传奇一生解读了他的教子遗训。刘邦从游手好闲的无名之辈成为西汉王朝的缔造者，他的人生可谓跌宕起伏。早年的刘邦鄙视文化，认为读书无益，在成长之后才慢慢懂得文化的重要性，并得到一批有文化、有智谋的人才辅佐，从而打败项羽，坐拥天下。在遗训中，刘邦将其一生的经验传给太子，嘱托道：“吾遭乱世，当秦禁学，自喜，谓读书无益。洎践祚以来，时方省书，乃使人知作者之意，追思昔所行，多不是。”令人惊诧的是，遗训里全无身为帝王的驭人之术，有的只是对自己行为的检讨和对太子好好读书的劝勉。读书的遗训，让汉朝发生巨大蜕变，促使其从迷信武力转变到文化治国，甚至促成了“汉族”形成和汉文化圈建立。作者的解读让我们从刘邦的家训中获得经历史验证过的宝贵经验。又如：作者从明代王汝梅的《王氏家训》中梳理出“处事以诚”的珍贵品质。佐以曾参杀猪和高允因祸得福的真实历史，传递出“诚”的真谛，即：“诚”是立身处世的不二法门，只有诚，一生才能走得远，走得稳。

　　借着这本书，作者把对教育的思考、对社会的关注、对国家的情怀都传递出来，这是此书最为珍贵之处。全书针对当今教育中容易被忽视的盲点以及在快节奏功利社会中需要特别加强的地方，通过家训故事，一一与读者商讨、分享。特别是对于现代教育弊端所产生的社会问题，此书为读者提供了新的视角与解决方式。

　　《良训传家》没有佶屈聱牙的生涩文字，更没有夸夸其谈的说教辞令，全书朴实无华却字字珠玑，将家训家教中的为人处世道理细细道来，如春风化雨一般启迪心智。通过作者的心得分享，我们可以发现历代家训中，不见高明的绝招，也没有终南捷径，唯有好好读书、安分守己、恭敬宽容、多做善事的家人嘱托。家训并无取巧之处，本分做人才是为人处世乃至家族延绵不绝的正道，除此之外别无他途。书中将家训中体现的中国人宽容、厚德、为善、尊师敬长、淡泊名利等优秀品质提取并传递出来，而中华民族正是依凭这些文化的智慧生生不息。我们只有传承家教家训中的精华，恪守中国的优秀文化传统，顽强地守住自己的根本，才能将中华文化一代一代传承下去。

来源：文化中国

Good training "heirloom"

"Mencius Lou Lou" cloud "the world is in the country, the country at home, the family is in the body", Zhi Guoping world started from self cultivation, family education is very important. Chinese ancient, to the emperor down to the common people, pays attention to family inheritance. Family is the multitude, classics, from emperor Li Shimin's "emperor fan" to name Zhu Geliang's commandment "book", from Ou Yangxiu's "son" Sima Guang "to show the" training children, can be described as the multitude. Han L "- a good training base and inheritance" Chinese family culture of a book, from the rich family to take for the contemporary classics still have enlightenment and worth promoting, combined with the real history, the modern social reality, the essence of wisdom in refining monk training and passed to the readers. The language is concise but not obscure, such as reading the content is rich and full of deep feeling filled with wisdom; and to enjoy as if it were malt sugar.
"Heirloom" is a good training, Zhu Xi, Zeng Guofan, Yan Zhitui selected data in the family famous, and the "Analects of Confucius" "Mencius" "roots" and other classics. The author has sorted out a large number of classical contents and explained it to his own feelings. The book not only reveals the inheritance of the ancient family, but also extracts the training foundation of "gentleman": starting from virtue, developing mind, improving talents and increasing knowledge, and thinks that these four aspects are closely linked and need continuous improvement. The author from the interpretation of ancient family, summed up the "treat people with wide, facing everything with respect of life, with excellent quality, sincere" reveal "reading can change temperament", making friends is decent and be wealthy in knowledge the important way to enhance the realm of life and other precious enlightenment.
This book content classification system, combing the family, the family, the interpretation of this guide, the education, the gentlemen of the Treasury, based on the book, the reader will be slim, his fundamental Chinese civilization heritage relying on the road, layers of depth, with a good training family theme, which is the subtlety the structure of the book. Every chapter in the book is the specific content of instructions as a guide, in cases of historical figures, enhance the reader's understanding, the family no longer difficult to read, let the living true to life historical figures. Such as: the author combines the Han Emperor Liu Bang's legendary life interpretation of the teachings of his godson. Liu Bang from the idle who became the founder of the Western Han Dynasty, his life has ups and downs. Early Liu Bang despised culture, think that reading useless, after growth slowly understand the importance of culture, and a number of culture, resources talent assisted, and beat Xiang, sitting on the world. In the teachings, Liu Bang will be their life experience to the prince, exhortations: "I was gone, when Qin ban, like that, reading useless. Ji Jianzuo since when the province is known to the author of the book, Italy, in the memorial, not much." Surprisingly, there is no teachings as Emperor Yu people of the surgery, only some of their behavior and review for Prince reading a good exhortation. Read the teachings of the Han Dynasty let great transformation, the transformation from military superstition to cultural rule, and even led to the "Han" and the formation of the Chinese cultural circle is established. The author's interpretation allows us to obtain valuable experience through history validated from the Liu Bang family in. Another example: the author from the Ming Dynasty Wang Rumei's "family" in Wang "doing things to sort out the precious quality of honesty". With the true history of Zeng butcher and Gao Yun's pass "sincere blessing in disguise," the true meaning, namely: "honesty" is the only example of sincerity, life can be the only proper course to take, go far, go steady.
With this book, the author conveyed the thought of education, the attention to the society and the feelings of the country, which is the most precious part of the book. According to the book easy to be ignored in today's education in the blind and need to strengthen local utility in a fast-paced society, the family story, one by one to discuss and share with readers. In particular, this book provides readers with new perspectives and solutions to the social problems arising from the abuse of modern education.
"Heirloom" is not a good training difficult to articulate jerky words, no preaching bombastic rhetoric, but the chastity family tutor in every phrase a gem, the Weirenchushi truth carefully, such as general enlightening salutary influence of education. Through the author's experience to share, we can find that the family discipline, no clever trick, there is no shortcut to high office, only a good reading, respectful, tolerant, remain in a proper sphere do good family exhortations. There is no one family, talent is one's duty to do Weirenchushi and family endures in the right way, in addition there is no other way. The book will Chinese s tolerance, morality, righteousness, respect and honor, fame and other good quality long extracted and passed out, and the Chinese nation is relying on these cultural wisdom of life and growth in nature. We only take the essence of family tutor, with excellent traditional culture Chinese, stubbornly hold their own fundamental, Chinese culture can be passed down from generation to generation.